MIRROR, MIRROR
Some women are never satisfied with their looks. If anyone thinks it is because of the brothers, think again.
A woman looks in the mirror and sees "the Other Woman" the one who taunts her from time to time but only exist in the recesses of her mind.
"the Other Woman" has been there since the woman was a girl. Often times, she's introduced by some well-meaning relative, even her parents, who say they want the best for her.
Loved ones might say something as innocent as "Why can't you be more like..." (fill in the blank) and the next thing the girl knows is she is looking outside of herself for the elusive trait or characteristic to add to her repertoire .
And so the journey begins where the woman finds very little about herself as desirable. Her focus is now on what is on the outside and her inner world crumbles from lack of attention.
Later, as an adult, G-D forbid her mate say something as simple as "Baby, I love you just the way you are..." and she will want to cut off his nuts and label him a "lame" for having "such low standards."
Unfortunately, the joke is on her. Her mate is right, she is a perfect version of herself - of which only one exist on the planet. The only thing that is true of the Other Woman is she is all powerful ...For she was created by the woman, not in her image, but rather in the image of all the things the woman believes she is not.
the Other Woman becomes an idol for worship and praise...except "the Other Woman" does not exist anywhere except in her imagination. Then it happens, because you know what we focus on will manifest, the Other Woman materializes in some shape or form in the life of the woman's mate.
Then true to nature, the woman will seek to destroy the 'image of the god' she helped create. This is why the woman never goes after the man who 'cheated'. It was never about him. He was only the vehicle to help her meet, in the flesh, and destroy the Other Woman.
copyright (c) 2011 Mel Hopkins
Posted by Mel at 2/28/2011 1:51 PM 
Categories: Woman to Woman
Tags: Other woman selfesteem relationships lost in emotion
Categories: Woman to Woman
Tags: Other woman selfesteem relationships lost in emotion
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